Power of the Purse


We are putting the POW in Power of the Purse this year!! Our annual event coming on March 16th is a fantastic opportunity to learn more about The Friendship Club, meet some of our girls and alumni, enjoy a delicious lunch and participate in our amazing purse raffle! We are currently recruiting table captains to fill our event and will kick off with a table captain party next week. Captains are charged with filling a table of eight.

Power of the Purse 2016 will kick off our 100 Heroes for Friendship campaign. We are seeking monthly donors who will commit to the long-term health and sustainability of The Friendship Club. This year we have moved to the Grass Valley Vets Hall so we have plenty of room to welcome you and your guests!

If you are interested in learning more about this event or are considering being a captain, please call Cindy at 265-4311. RSVP is required.

Monthly Matters

2015 GraduatesHave you considered becoming a monthly donor? Did you know that monthly donors are critical to the long-term success of our program because they provide steady, reliable income that we can count on? Monthly donations help us in between major fundraising events and provide stability during our busiest times of year. In an effort to encourage, excite, and engage more monthly donors we are launching our Monthly Matters group!

Monthly donors will enjoy a special newsletter highlighting how monthly donations impact our program and including special stories from girls and alums about their experiences at the club, in college and in the working world. On Monday, February 29th we will LEAP into our new program with a gathering at The Friendship Club! You will be inspired and excited as you learn more about the programs, meet other monthly donors, staff and graduates of The Friendship Club. You will learn firsthand how important you are to our mission and making an impact on our girls!

If you are a monthly donor already, please look for your Monthly Matters newsletter and invitation to our February 29th event – bring a friend to learn more! If you are not yet a monthly donor please consider becoming one today; monthly donations in any amount are appreciated. Please consider supporting our efforts to engage 100 monthly donors in 2016 and IMPACT The Friendship Club today and into tomorrow! Monthly donors have the option of making their donations via check, credit card, bank account, or Paypal! Call today to learn more or to sign up: 265-4311.

Making an Impact


How does The Friendship Club know if it’s successful in achieving its mission to educate, engage and empower girls at risk? This is a question we hear a lot! Besides observing the changes in our girls first-hand and hearing their stories of growth while in our program, we have worked hard to capture data on the impacts we are making year after year. However, we first needed to specify “what are the impacts we are trying to achieve with the girls?” in order to measure them. We focus on six impact areas in order to help participating girls grow into happy, healthy adults:

  1. Health and Wellness: Girls are learning healthy coping skills for the stressors in their lives; are understanding the physiological and emotional impacts of using drugs, alcohol and tobacco, and are learning about and developing positive health care habits including fitness and nutrition.
  2. Self-Awareness: Girls are reflecting on their own growth and strengths. They are getting to know who they are and understand how their actions affect their lives.
  3. Goal Setting: Girls are learning how to set short-term and long-term goals and have a clear understanding of what steps are needed to achieve them. They have confidence that they can achieve the life that they want.
  4. Self-Sufficiency: Girls will be able to take care of themselves by learning important life skills such as financial literacy, planning and preparing meals, how to interact with adults, proper etiquette in formal and informal settings, and how to help take care of their home.
  5. Healthy Relationships: Girls learn what a healthy, safe relationship looks like and they can maintain healthy relationships with family, friends, and significant others.
  6. Community Connectedness: Girls are given opportunities to connect with their community through community service activities and interacting with the community at events. They understand the importance of giving back to whatever community they live in and feel responsible to do so.

Regardless of whether girls are attending an after school meeting, going on a field trip, or spending time at summer camp, each activity developed by our program directors is aimed at building our girls’ knowledge and skills in each of these impact areas. Furthermore, we do so in a way that is developmentally appropriate for the wide range of ages we serve.

So how do we know we are successful? Yes, we do observe positive changes in our girls in these areas, and yes, we are measuring this growth with the data we collect. But the real way we know is because the girls say so! According to the girls, they believe that The Friendship Club has helped them:

  • Do better in school (92%)
  • Make new friends (92%)
  • Think about their future (94%)
  • Stay out of trouble (87%)
  • Have a safe place to be (96%)
  • Have a plan after high school (90%)
  • Understand what a healthy relationship is like (90%)

WE are successful and it’s all because we do this together for our girls.  Thank you for your part in making this success happen!

A Message from our Executive Director

jenniferTwenty Years! It’s hard to believe, important to celebrate, and has been emotional to witness the compassion, connection, and camaraderie The Friendship Club inspires in our community.

Thank you, our loyal and kind donors and volunteers, for your friendship, hard work and dedication to our girls. I am empowered each day by the staff, volunteers, and donors who work so hard to create a loving environment where our girls can blossom into the young women they are.

I am especially proud of the girls I have had the opportunity to meet over the last twenty years. Their stories are often heartbreaking, their courage in the face of adversity is inspiring, and I am so proud of them that my heart swells.

Donors, volunteers and friends like you have laid a strong foundation for our girls. Because of you they have friendship and fun, summers together, Thanksgiving traditions, and happy childhood memories. You have helped us create space for them. It’s a space for them to think and learn, a space for them to develop positive and lasting relationships, a space to dream and experience life and possibilities. We hold this space and welcome them no matter where they are, no matter what struggles they face, no matter what they need.

Our girls are giving back, leading, loving, and growing together and many are returning to give to younger girls what they had the opportunity to experience in their younger years. Every year, every month, every day, this matters. They matter. You matter.

I thank you,


Executive Director Achieves Milestone

CFRE Certificate PicAll of us at The Friendship Club are proud to announce that Executive Director, Jennifer Singer, has successfully received her Certified Fund Raising Executive (CFRE) credential! This is no easy accomplishment by any means, as demonstrated by the fact that she is only one of three such people with their CFRE credential in all of Nevada County! She received her credential alongside colleague, Sandra Barrington, the Major Gift Director for Sierra Nevada Memorial Hospital Foundation (SNMHF). Kimberly Parker, Executive Director of SNMHF, has been the only CFRE in the county until these two amazing ladies joined her!

The CFRE credential demonstrates an individual’s mastery of the standards set for experienced fundraising professionals. This rigorous process of certification requires both an application and a written examination to test one’s skills and knowledge in fundraising. According to the credential granting entity, CFRE International, they certify experienced fundraising professionals aspiring to the highest standards of ethics, competence and service to the philanthropic sector. Well done, Jenn! We are lucky to have you as our leader and for the knowledge and skills you contribute to our community!

Holiday Reception Honors Supporters

Our Annual Holiday Reception for donors and volunteers was an awesome party! It is such an amazing evening to simply say thank you to the people who are committed to our mission and our girls. Guests enjoyed meeting some of our girls and we were so proud to have so many girls (one from each cohort) share her personal experiences with our donors. We also honored long time board member, Susie Bavo. We surprised Susie with a visit from the girl she mentored first in The Friendship Club, Jasmine Turner, aged 27. Graduate, Shilo Piper was our special guest from Seattle and spoke about Susie and Dave’s commitment to her and to her college education! Juliet Erickson was honored for her service as board president for the last four years. We will miss both of these amazing women on the board but we know that their hearts will never be far from The Friendship Club.


We also took the opportunity to honor our 2015 Volunteer of The Year, Rick Bethel. Rick has been a volunteer driver and event support volunteer for well over five years. He was presented with a picture collage featuring girls he has driven over the years and was signed by all of our girls. Amber Sylvia and Kassie Clark, graduates of The Friendship Club, spoke about Rick’s commitment to them and of his friendship over the many years he transported them from their schools to the club. We thank Rick and volunteers like him who, often quietly, make the behind the scenes moments happen every day!


Mick Collins and Rene VanHeel of Pay It Forward Processing were also on hand to present The Friendship Club with a check for $3,343.10. Many thanks to the businesses that have chose to support The Friendship Club through the Pay It Forward program. We will share more about this awesome opportunity and how you can be a part of it as well as honor our businesses in January! Thank you Mick for your continued advocacy of The Friendship Club!


Friendship Club Receives Grant from Capitol Network

Capitol Network Check Presentation

The Friendship Club received a $5,000 grant in December to support our ongoing programs. Erin Sullivan, a local resident and member of Capitol Network recommended The Friendship Club and advocated on our behalf. This was the first year an organization in Nevada County was a recipient of this grant. Capitol Network is a non-profit, non-partisan organization of public and private professionals who work in and around California’s state capitol. Capitol Network’s members are government relations, administration, communications, and legislative professionals. Capitol Network raises funds for charitable organizations that serve the needs of women and children in California. Thank you to Erin for your interest and for bringing The Friendship Club to Capitol Network’s attention!

Treat Yourself or Loved One and Support TFC!

Reflections Skin Oasis is doing their 12 Days of Giving again this year and we are pleased that Saturday, December 12th, is the day for The Friendship Club! They will donate 10% of all items purchased during the day in support of our programs. It’s a great way to treat yourself and/or a loved one to some wonderful pampering services and products, while also treating TFC.  Please click on the flyer below for details and we hope to see you there!

Reflections 12 Days of Giving Flyer

Smith Vineyard Supporting TFC on Christmas Eve


On Thursday, December 24th, Smith Vineyard is supporting The Friendship Club as part of it’s 12 Days of Giving program that gives back to local nonprofits.  On this day, 20% of all proceeds will support our valuable programs, so stock up on your favorite wines for the holidays!

The event takes place at their tasting room, located at 142 Mill Street in downtown Grass Valley.  It will be from 12:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. on December 24th.

A Message From Our Executive Director

jenniferAs Thanksgiving approaches I am overwhelmed with gratitude for the support of our community. Because of support from people like you, The Friendship Club is humming and our girls are thriving. Three years of infrastructure investment, program evaluation and refinement, and staff development have given new life to all of our programs and services. I would like to take this opportunity to thank our professional, dedicated staff for their commitment to their work. They take their jobs very seriously and are a lifeline to our girls. Not only are they willing to put in the difficult and sometimes emotional work, they are there as cheerleaders and confidants to our girls, whenever they are needed. They love our girls and you can see that every time they interact with them. Whether it is an afterschool meeting, a special Thanksgiving dinner, a field trip, or an unexpected chat in the hallway, the staff intuitively knows when a girl needs her support, even if the girl doesn’t know how to ask for it. The entire team goes to bat for our girls, advocates for them, encourages them, and empowers them to be the best they can be. They put in long hours, think about their girls all the time, and are always finding ways to include and inspire each girl. As Executive Director I don’t have the opportunity to spend time with the girls the way I used to but I trust completely in this amazing staff of women to be what the girls need. Many thanks and my admiration to Dena, Denise, Kristin, Cindy, Jessica, Narissa, Trish and Mary for a job well done!

Next week we will host our annual Thanksgiving Dinner with all of our girls, staff, and board in attendance. It’s a special time for our girls to enjoy a homemade meal, celebrate friendship and express gratitude with some of our donors and special friends. We have a few spots left if you would like to join us but please call soon! The event is on November 12th. We send special thanks to Janeille Litton and Kay Baker for spearheading this annual event and to the many volunteers who make it all possible!